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Saturday 1 January 2011

A Guide to Taking Action and Creating the Life You Want

I just come across this article by : Stephanie_Russell about taking action in your life...

Thankyou Stephanie...


There is a life out there with your name on it and it is beyond even your wildest dreams. I can barely express in words how much I want for you to love your life! I want so much for you to experience the sublime joy that is yours when your life is your own. I however, can't do it for you. Only you can take the actions needed for you to create the life you want.


This is your call to arms. It's time to take action. Complaints and excuses get you no where. The time is now. The world has gotten to a place where most people are too busy blaming the other guy to take responsibility for their own actions. The other guy didn't create your life, you did. If you don't like where you're at right now, choose to create something different. Here is your next step: take action.

Stop wishing. Stop complaining. Stop waiting for someone else to come along and fix your life. Start getting clear about what you want. Start believing that what you want is already yours. Start taking action that moves you in the direction of your dreams and goals.

If you knew how to create the life of your dreams already, you'd have done it by now. It's time to take a new approach and learn what you need to learn to live the life of your dreams. Find someone who has done what you want to do, someone who has what you want to have and learn from them. Read books from authors you connect with, go to workshops and seminars, hire a coach if you want to, or take a class. Do something.

Unfortunately, you won't wake up tomorrow and suddenly have all the knowledge you need to create the life you want just because you decided you want it. The world requires commitment on your part. Show the world that you want something different and that you will do what it takes to get there. If you want to get the attention of the universe than start doing something different. The world around you will wake up and take notice.

If you are sitting there thinking that what you want isn't worth the effort, think again. Think about what you want that would be worth the effort because that is the dream that you are meant to be living. When you tap into the desires within your soul that are aching to come forward, you will move Heaven and Earth to have those desires be your reality. Actually, Heaven and Earth will move for you because you are a rarity in the world.

Once you decide what you want, it's time to start changing your ways. In order to have something different, you will have to try something new. This can be uncomfortable for some people, and it doesn't have to be. Treat it like an adventure. With each new experience a path unfolds before you leading you towards the life you've always wanted to have.

So how do you know what you need to do differently to reach your goals? Well, you don't. You have the choice of learning from the experiences of other people, or through your own trial and error. Really you'll do a combination of the two. You may try something that worked really well for someone else and it isn't quite right for you. That doesn't mean that you can't have what you want, it just means you'll have to try something else. Learn and move on.

Go with your gut. I can't stress the importance of your gut instincts enough. If you feel drawn to a particular person, book, or seminar, go with it. That's not necessarily me, by the way. I'm a fit for some people and I'm not for others. That's how it should be. There are resources out there that are a perfect fit for you and that are exactly what you need. Look at what is out there and go with what feels right for you.

Get help if you need it. There are people out there who specialize in helping other people have what they want in life. There is a whole industry around it called coaching and there are all different kinds of coaching specialities. There is someone out there to help you. You are not alone. I can't stress this enough either.

I am a coach. I believe very strongly in what I do and in what other coaches do. Coaches are very valuable resources to their clients because they give you individualized attention. I strongly suggest that if you are feeling stuck and aren't sure what you need to do next that you look into coaching as an option. There is a coach out there that is a fit for you and will meet your needs. If your unhappy in your life it's time to take action and create a life you are happy about. Every resource in the world is available to help you create a life that brings you joy. Your fairy godmother has retired, so it's time to take matters into your own hands.

Go to http://www.divinepathcoaching.com/
for your free 25 minute Having It All Coaching Session with expert life design coach Stephanie Russell and receive a personalized action plan for having it all. Spaces are limited so contact today.

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Monday 27 December 2010

Good Intentions Are Meaningless

The New Year is fast approaching full of good intentions and resolutions.

I just come across this article by Royale Scuderi thought I would take the time to share it will you...

Thankyou Royale :

Good Intentions are meaningless without action to back them up. That's not to say that good intentions themselves aren't valuable. Certainly in an ethical and altruistic manner, intentions may be of utmost value. But when you're "in the trenches," so to speak, trying to accomplish something at work or at home, intentions mean zip.


I started to mentally retrace my days to see how this concept might apply to me and most likely others as well. I always have many commendable intentions and most of the time, pretty good follow-through, but not always.

I too intended to get up early (5:30AM) to read, journal and exercise - not happening, rolled over until 7. Ooops! I dressed in my sweats anyway, intending to exercise on my lunch hour - uh nope - got a phone call and a meeting was moved up to 12:30, so the reality was a rushed shower and off I went. My intention was to finish up my "day job" by 1PM and work on writing some blog posts and do a bit of marketing before the kids get home from school. No such luck - my meeting ran long, then I had to take a detour to the school to drop off the marimba we borrowed over spring break and I did not get home until school was out. Then it was homework, dinner and grocery shopping. I absolutely intended to catch up on my work and take a walk to at least get some exercise when the errands were all done, but then my older daughter called from college and my younger daughter wanted to talk about "boy problems." So, all in all, I don't think I actually did anything I intended to do. Well, except for intending to stay away from sugar and eat healthy snacks... uh, not so much, but that butter cake was delicious!

I'm sure, if you're like me, you have ambitious intentions, but do you have a plan and take the necessary action to carry them out?

Royale Scuderi is a personal productivity expert and author. She blogs about productivity tips, tools and strategies at http://personalproductivity101.com/ Her mission is to Help you to work smarter and live better! You too can have business success and life satisfaction through increased efficiency, organization, motivation and awareness. Visit http://personalproductivity101.com/ to sign up to receive free productivity tips via email. Copyright 2010 Royale Scuderi All Rights Reserved



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Monday 22 November 2010

Is Fear Controlling Your Mind?

I just discovered this article by : Natasha Yearwood thought I would take the time to share it with you.

Thankyou Natasha.

Fear is a common and powerful negative energy that will eat away at your esteem and self-worth. When you allow fear to consume your mind, it takes over, making decisions for you. You are no longer in control of yourself, but rather, fear controls you. How can you know if fear is controlling your mind?


You second-guess every decision you make. One sign that fear has taken control is that you will never be comfortable with any decision you make. You always wonder if you did the right thing. You question whether or not things might have been better or gone differently if you'd made a different decision. You can never settle on a decision and feel good about it.

You can't make a decision because you are too worried about make a wrong move. Maybe fear has such control over you that you can't even make decisions anymore. You weigh out the pros and cons in your mind, but feel like the answer is a huge question mark. You are so scared you'll do the wrong thing that you allow someone else to make all the decisions for you.

You retreat from public situations because you think you'll be rejected. Fear creates a worry of rejection. Because you are indecisive and fearful of making decisions, you worry now that others will begin to pick up on this and not want to be around you because of it.

Fear is a big problem that can totally consume and overpower you. If you feel like fear is becoming a part of your way of thinking, take steps to get control of it now, before it controls you later.

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Saturday 23 October 2010

How Life Coaching Can Help You

Here is a nice article I have just discovered by : Kristen L Baker thought I would take the time to share it with you.

Thankyou Kirsten.


Life coaching is a practice that is aimed at making lives worth living for people who have low self confidence and have been bullied by other people because of problems like anxiety, stress, depression etc. It helps people who need someone to deal with their problems. These people set goals but do not have the ability to achieve them. In fact the have the ability to achieve those goals but due to their low self confidence they are unable to achieve their targets. These people are unaware of the skills and creativity they possess, Life coaching helps them in realizing their full potentials.


There are life coaches who help people suffering from anxiety. The client has to first contact the coach. Their first meeting is set up. In their first meeting the client explains his or her problem. The client should make sure that he tells everything to the coach and should not avoid details thinking they are of no importance. After listening to the client carefully the coach should make up his mind on how to go about the treatment. Usually the coaches start off with positive talk. They try and fill in positive energy in the client, something that the client needs the most.

The coach's way of talking and assurance makes the client feel as if there is someone who is listening to him. They teach the client how to live life instead of fearing it. After the sessions, the client is happy and relieved. You will be able to notice a big change in him or her. The way of living life and the attitude gets changed. Now they live life and spend it as they want. Keep in mind that these coaches are neither therapists nor doctors. They are counselors and are people who love to help others and make their life worth living.

Life coaching is also helpful when you are stressed. Many situations come up in life when you are stressed and feel that there is no solution to the problem you are going through. This is where the role of life coach comes into play. The life coach makes you realize that every problem has a solution. The only thing that you need to know is that you can do it and can solve any kind of problem. Many life coaches use music as a medicine for the clients. It takes the stress out of you and relaxes your mind. When you have peace in your mind, your mind works faster and is able to solve many problems.

If you are in need of a life coach, contact Kristen L. Baker. She is neither a doctor nor a therapist. She is a woman who had anxiety when she was young. She fought anxiety and now is ready to help whoever she can. You can contact her regardless of where you live. She will help you with in the best possible manner and will help you fight your disorder too. She is a person who has immense qualities as a life coach and a great person. She can understand you well and will solve all your problems once you meet her and tell her what your problems are. She loves to help people and make their lives beautiful!

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Thursday 30 September 2010

What Can a Life Coach Do For You?

Because you are reading this, means that you want to improve your life. You probably know, deep down inside, that you could be more than you are right now. If that weren't true, you would have already stopped reading, but you haven't, so that is the proof that you are looking for, isn't it?


Let's get right down to the point. You have dreams that are always just out of your reach. You almost get there, when something out of the blue, swipes it from you. Other times, you see yourself repeating the same weird pattern over and over again. You may see the same things happen in your relationships, only with a new face, over and over again.

Why do we do this to ourselves? If you knew how to stop the circle, you would wouldn't you?

Of course, but almost everyone needs to be handed a rope to get out of the quick sand. Very few, if any, ever get out on their own.

So what can a life coach do for you?

The real question is what can't a life coach do for you.

A life coach is a person trained to help you to untangle you thoughts patterns, get rid of limiting beliefs that hold you back and adopt new habits that will get you what you want.

Getting what you want is impossible with your current set of beliefs, habits and thoughts. If you change nothing, you will continue to get exactly what you've got. Is that what you want, more of the same?

No, and so that is exactly why you need a life coach. In order to do something different and therefore get new results, you need help seeing what to clean.

How can you be sure what new beliefs you need to make your dreams a reality? How can you know what is holding you back? Which of you thoughts are like the Englishmen in 1490 that believed that the world was flat?

What if you think that the world is flat, so to speak, and you don't even know it? Ah...discovering the truth about you and the world around you is the key to achieving what you know you can.

Think, right now, think about what you really want for yourself.

A life coach can help you get just that. Won't you feel lucky when you get a life coach that will help you get your dreams out of your head and into reality?

Maybe you are like others and want to improve your life. Many, perhaps you too, are longing to change the bad for the good in their life. If you want more out of your life, then take action to get what you deserve. Nobody is going to give you the life of your dreams, YOU need to make your dreams come true.

Often, we don't know how to make our dreams come true. A guide is the best way to lead you to your dreams.

If you want to know if life coaching can help you make your dreams a reality, then you can find out more information at http://sandiegolifecoach.org/. If you are serious about achieving your true potential, remember that life coaching is the map that can get you where you want to be. We look forward to being a part of your journey!

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Tuesday 21 September 2010

Life Coaching For Personal Success

Just come across this article by Penelope Diaz thought I would take the time to share with you.


Thankyou Penelope...


Getting to the next level is important for almost everyone. Since you are reading this article, you are probably one of the many searching for better results in your life.


Attaining personal success is a worthwhile endeavor. Succeeding in the game of live earns you the greatest trophy ever imagined, inner and outer success. However, as is the case for almost all athletes, you need a mentor and a coach to help you break you current boundaries.

In order to access the greatness within, you need help. With the right assets and leverage in place you literally can move mountains, if that is your aim.

If just having a better financial or love life is your aim, you can get it even easier than moving a mountain.

So, just what does a life coach do to help you get personal success, be it at work, in your personal relationships or even overcoming personal weaknesses?

Of utmost importance in you quest for success is discovering why you want what you want. Have you ever known a person that was miserable no matter how many accomplishments they had behind them? Things can't make us happy, so we need to know what the things will do for us really.

This exploration process is very cool, I know that you'll discover things about yourself that will blow your mind! We think we know ourselves so well, and one session with a life coach can show you how much you can learn about yourself.

After you find out what really motivates you and your true desires, then you need to flush out your blocks.

Again, we think that we know ourselves, but when you find out the truth about what is holding you back, again it will blow your mind!

You are sure to be hooked on life coaching after a few brief sessions of self discovery with your life coach. And that's a good thing because then your life coach will teach you what to do with your new found insight on yourself.

The key to success is what you do with what you know, so armed with your discovery of what motivates you and what blocks you from success, the real fun begins.

Your life coach will be well trained and armed with many tools to root out totally what is blocking you. There is no 'fight through the pain' philosophy with life coaching. The aim is to make your stumbling blocks vanish through effective life coaching

Having a better life is important to everyone. Everyone has a few things that they would like to either get rid of completely, or at the very least minimize. Many also realize intuitively that they are not realizing their full potential.

Very few people know how to get what they want on their own. If they did know how, chance are that they would already be living their dream.

Are you?

If you want to know if life coaching can help you make your dreams a reality, then you will want to go to our website at http://sandiegolifecoach.org/decide if now is the right time to hire a life coaching.

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